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[quote=Anonymous]I completely know where you are. I also lost my mom and didn't have a close relationship with her. I was really hoping to have that mother-daughter relationship I didn't have. In my case, we may have a 3rd child so part of me is putting off dealing with what if I never have a girl. But honestly, at this point I am really ok with that. And if we have a 3rd, I am at a zen place about whether it's a girl or boy. In fact, I kind of expect to have boys since I have 2 brothers and 5 nephews. No girls in my family other than me. I had some issues when I was pregnant with my 2nd son in terms of wondering if I'll always feel sad at not having a daughter. But once he was born, I literally haven't thought about it again. I know that sounds cliche but in my case it's true. I love both my boys and I am just going with the belief that I was meant to have 2 boys and not daughters. I sometimes wonder if I'd even be a good girl mom since I know boys so well. [/quote]
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