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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why is your friend worried about your health? I would take that very seriously. Does she mean your mental health? The fact that people rallied around you when you had your miscarriage does not really indicate anything. Actually having a baby is much more stressful in the long term. You shouldn't really be counting on other people to step in if you have serious mental health challenges.[/quote]

I don't have serious mental health challenges.  Deciding to have a baby even ended my anxiety issues.  Believe it or not I'm healthier emotionally than ever, despite the grief.  I am going to ask her about the health question.  She knows I'm recovering on schedule, both mentally and physically.

I guess I heard in her message that she cares and it's hard to watch me go through this again and again.  But I feel like it's different with DE--resetting the clock so to speak.  If this was indeed a fluke.  They're karyotyping the donor hoping to find and answer, and we are testing me to death as well.[/quote]

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