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[quote=Anonymous]I have been to hell and back like so many of us.  Failed IVF with OE, including a m/c.  Moved on to DE and just lost it last week.

Mom wants me to stop, said so in the worst throes of my grief, and I lost it on her.

Now a dear friend wrote and said she hopes that if the next round doesn't work that I stop because she's worried about my health, and since I'm single that there would be no one to take care of me and my baby if I get sick.

Well, that last m/c proved that it's not true, people rallied around me.  Mom, brother, everyone.  Some of whom had only just then heard that I was trying to have a baby--when you're single it's not a proclamation.

I understand hating that it's taking this long--I feel this way more than anyone else.  But I'm not ready to stop, and the doctor assures me that with DE, my odds are still high, he thinks the m/c was a fluke--though we're doing all testing advisable before the next round.

Any encouragement from those who have continued and persevered and think it was worth it, would be welcome.[/quote]

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