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[quote=Anonymous]If I were you I would 1) go to individual counseling 2) talk to a divorce lawyer.

Reason for #1: Your post has "she" this and "she" that as if you are going to fix her. This is a very common view point of a married couple that has never had counseling. Sure she says "f-you" (which is not okay) because (whether you know it or not) you are frustrating her more than she already is frustrated. YOU ARE NOT GOING TO FIX IT (HER). She needs to do this on her own.

Also, individual counseling will let you understand your wants vs. your needs. You will be able to determine if this current life or whatever this current life leads to is something you can live with or not.

It is okay in a realationship to say there are non-negotiables. Is this a non-negotiable? I don't think you know yet.

If you refuse to do #1 how about just laying off the subject for 3 months and see how it goes.

Reason for #2: If #1 does not get you to a good place you need to understand divorce. A divorce lawyer actually talked me out of divorce. You need to understand assets, alimony and custody. You can not determine what is a non-negotiable until you are ready to determine what you are willing to do about that non-negotiable.

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