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[quote=Anonymous]DH had selective mutism at school and in public but would speak at home.  DS has severe anxiety and, while I wouldn't call it full-out selective mutism, he definitely shuts down verbally when overwhelmed.  I really can be debilitating.  I agree with the advice to pull back on the playdates.  They are clearly not working and you are right that everyone is probably wondering what the point is.  I would focus on encouraging your daughter to enjoy activities with you and worry about others later.  I agree with the idea of sign language or a picture chart.

I would also highly recommend movement -- we have swings in our basement and a trampoline and it really helps DS.  In fact, he was just down there swinging.  It soothes him, calms him, gets out excess energy.  Not easy to have room for in our city house, but it's worth it.  I also know someone who has swings in the living room.  I'm sure their friends wonder.  I'm no expert so I don't know the physical/mental reason behind it, but it works!

I know how frustrating this can be.  DS has trouble in just about every social situation because of the anxiety.  When he breaks through the anxiety, he's a beautiful, funny, clever child, but only close friends and family get to see it.  Hugs and you are doing the right thing just by recognizing that this is going to be work.  I agree to resume therapy, either with the same therapist or another.  DS loves therapy with the right person so maybe it is necessary to look for another therapist.  GL.[/quote]

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