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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  We are already in counseling.  He doesnt want to help around the house because I don't show enough gratitude for the things he does do (daycare pickups, grocery shopping, taking out trash).  He says no matter what he does I am not satisfied.  I do think part of the problem is that I don't respect him because he spends all his time on Reddit or TV, unless he is helping me with DD or something I asked him to do. [b]But he does't do things of his own accord.[/b]  I picked the wrong person but now this is what I'm working with so tryjng to figure out how to improve things.[/quote]

My dh shows no initiative either in anything around the house.  Once he took out the kitchen trash because it smelled but the other times, it requires repeated requests to do this or anything else.

But in you dh's case, if he's not interested in working outside the home again, there should be a discussion on him taking up other household tasks bc a house does not take care of itself.  I feel your pain, OP.[/quote]

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