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[quote=Anonymous]I believe he has what is known as "chutzpa." He's not applying for jobs, not watching the kids, not doing house work, but needs you to respect his time? What about your time? You have to figure out what you want in a relationship but "for the sake of the kids" is not a good reason to let him sit on his lazy butt all day watching soaps or working out or whatever it is he does with his life. And it's certainly not a reason to indulge this. Think about what your kids are learning from this (if you think they don't know what's going on, you're fooling yourself). I think you need to just be straight up with him--this is unacceptale, and you're going to throw his ass out if he doesn't step up and (1) look for a job FULL TIME or (2) help out around the house (he should actually do both, BTW). If he whines like an overgrown child, throw him out of the nest like you would an overgrown child. [/quote]
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