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[quote=Anonymous]I'm wondering how common this is and how others deal with it.  I love all of my husband's friends except one guy that just makes my skin crawl for a plethora of reasons that would take ages to even go in to. What makes this difficult is that he is always around, or attempting to be around.  He sends text messages every single day wanting my husband to meet up for a beer and will even drop by with beer in hand unexpectedly and then never leave.  He'll bring his kids over and just let them run loose and destroy my house.  It drives me nuts!  I want my husband to have close/good friends, which he does, but this guy is creepy and an asshole.  He's married, but not happily, so he clearly feels no strong desire to be at home while at the same time having no concept of boundaries or the term "overstaying a visit."  When our baby was 5-days old, he lingered for an entire afternoon and didn't leave until I literally yelled at him to give me some privacy so I could feed the baby in the comfort of my own living room (I didn't quite have my breastfeeding dexterity yet and I had politely asked for privacy multiple times...he just didn't care).  Nothing gets me fuming more than coming home from a hard day at work and seeing this guy sitting in my house, not only because he's an ass but also because I know he won't be leaving anytime soon.  I cannot for the life of me understand why my husband likes this guy.  My husband knows how I feel about him, but keeps hanging out with him--which I would be more willing to accept if the guy would just get a clue and understand when the proper time to say goodbye would be!

Does anyone else have someone like this in their life and how do you deal with them?[/quote]

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