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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Tell them they can't come. Then tell the nanny to be out with your child when they are supposed to drop by. Tell your DH that it doesn't matter that it doesn't bother him. It bothers you and the two of you are the central team. Then tell him you are willing to see his family every third weekend at most. He is welcome to visit them on his own more often. [/quote] This. Your husband does not need to be convinced that you're right. All he needs to know is that this is bothering you. You need to feel that he's "Team Wife/Mother of his Child". The real annoyance with all of this family--dh, mil, SIL--is their total dismissal of your requests. To me, that is the height of disrespect. That needs to be shut down with dh immediately. "When you say 'It's not a big deal the my mom wants to come every weekend' I feel dismissed. I feel like my feelings don't matter because they're different from yours."[/quote]
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