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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your husband should handle it. [/quote]
My husband does not mind living as one big family. He does not see an issue and enjoys the whole "mi casa su casa" philosophy, however it only works one way. I can't imagine going to my SIL's apartment without her being there ( not that I want to).[/quote]

Not going to be one big HAPPY family if you're not happy.  He chose you, you and DC are his family now and if you are upset by this he needs to handle it.   At this point, assuming you've told him how you feel (a few times so he really heard it), he's choosing his mom and family over you, and that needs to stop.

Sit down with him and calmly explain that this is no ok with you and it needs to change.  Work with him to come up with a plan that you can try to live with that doesn't shut anyone out completely - and then he explains the plan to his family in a way that doesn't present you as the bad guy.

he needs to support you, even if he doesn't agree.  He does agree that his wife needs to be happy - and that's the bottom line[/quote]

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