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[quote=gent.in.nwdc]As a moderatlely-heavy drinker, I have a few thoughts:

1. It sounds like his tolerance is diminishing as he gets older but he hasn't adapted his drinking habits to this new reality. He doesn't seem to know where his limits are. I'd be very worried that he would get in a car, feel fine to drive, and then end up with a DUI (which can result in major fines, jail time, and perhaps irreparable harm to his career). Are there any medications he's taking that could be affecting his tolerance?

2. Set some hard limits for him. No more than two glasses of wine on a weeknight and no more than 4 on a weekend day. Make him agree to stick by this.

3. I feel that he might need a therapist, or at least a neutral person to talk to about his everyday issues. The sulking makes me think that he is moderately depressed. He might not need medication, but I think everyone needs a session "on the couch" with a therapist from time to time.

4. KEEP THE INLAWS OUT OF THIS. They definitely won't make the situation better. If it gets worse (abusive behavior, missing out on family responsibilities), then it might be necessary to involve them. Until then, keep this between him and you.[/quote]

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