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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]8:38 here.  I'm sorry that your BIL's gf is being so terrible.

I would try saying something along the lines of: I just wanted to let you know that we've been having a really tough time lately and some of your comments have been really hurtful.  You may not realize how they come across, but you should know that a night out for us is not "lucky."  Such a comment just reminds us of all the losses we have suffered.  We are happy you and BIL have a healthy baby and we wish we could be as blessed as you to have that too.  Please understand that no one wants to suffer with infertility and there is nothing lucky or wonderful about it.  I would just ask that you please think and be sensitive about that before you make a comment about how "lucky" we are.

Sorry if that was a bit much.  A bit of venting on my part from the last few months.  :-)  Glad to hear most people have been supportive for you.  That is so important, especially when dealing with jerks.  [/quote]

Thanks 8:38. OP here. That's a great approach. Going to give myself a few days to calm down and then send her a pm along the lines that you have outlined. Much better than calling her a tone deaf idiot. :-)[/quote]

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