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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't blame you for feeling upset.  What I find somewhat distasteful is the way you discount her reasons for getting pregnant (she went off the pill because it ruined her skin -- is that not a valid reason for wanting to go off the pill?  she continued to have sex -- oh my god, what a whore!  She didn't want to spend the money on an IUD -- so what?)

OP, stop marginalizing her.  It's okay to feel uncomfortable around her but it's not okay to depict her as some kind of valueless dingbat tightwad trollop.[/quote]

I know women like this, my college roommate used abortions (she had 4 or 5) as birth control.  Went on to have three kids.

I think OP would rather a woman use some sort of protection (condoms or whatever) than just abort.  I know the personally I don't think that abortion should be used as a contraception.

We are also talking about a PhD here so dingbat is probably not the right word.  She should know better.  I personally think it is shameful for an educated woman to be so stupid when there are a million forms of contraception out there.  And OP, perhaps her fiance was the real cause of the abortion.  [/quote]

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