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[quote=Anonymous]Yep, same problem here. My husband always claims he is "working on it," but I don't really see any evidence thereof. A couple ideas: 1. Can you hire a cleaning service to do some of the work so less of it falls to you? Or if you already have cleaning help, can you increase it? My dad is an incredibly messy guy, and I was surprised to learn his cleaning service actually does dishes and picks up clothes. (Is that normal?) I'm guessing with some negotiation, you could pay someone to do whatever it is that needs doing. 2. OP, you said the dishes are always done. Is your husband doing them? Are there other household chores he is willing to do in exchange for you having to be the picker upper? I don't mind cleaning up after my husband nearly as much when he is doing some other work around the house that I don't want to do. Good luck![/quote]
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