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[quote=Anonymous]How do y'all deal with an overly messy spouse to your clean or vice-versa I have no problem with living in a house, i.e. items on a table overnight, mail stacked up for a couple days, etc. My husband, though, is that kind of messy that leaves everything out on counters/every available horizontal surface, rendering the kitchen table, kitchen counters, etc. unusable if I am not constantly after it. The blessing is, is that the dishes are always done - so no food left anywhere - but the paper trails he leaves make me nuts. His personal spaces (workshop and office) look like a hoarder lives there. This is beyond just a bit messy. Quite sure his unmedicated (refuses) ADD is the cause. I love him, lots of good things about him, but seeing things all over makes my head cluttered and I can't think straight. I love him, but after 20 years, living with him into old age feels tiring. Anyone else dealing with such a situation?[/quote]
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