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[quote=Anonymous]My ex and I have been officially broken up for about 10 months now. He broke up with me when i told him I had cancer, but that's a totally different story. 
Since then, we have not stopped having sex and talking every day, all day long (The talking, not the sex). I live three hours away so we see each other about once to twice a month. I have told him about every single guy i have talked to since we broke up. Neither of us have dated anyone else (or so I thought). I have been upfront and honest about the men in my life, who are basically just guys who flirt with me. 
The reason we broke up was because he didn't want kids and I was jealous. I don't think men and women can just be friends as long as both are single. I agree, I was jealous when we were together. It was a problem.

Now, today, he has told me that 4 months ago, he met a girl that rides his bus and works in his building. He said they talk every day and recently exchanged numbers. He said he doesn't like her like that and that she is only a friend. I have given him several opportunities to tell me if he was talking to anyone else and he's denied it every time. 
I feel completely lied to. yes, we were basically FWB, but today he told me I was his best friend. I don't consider anyone who would lie to me every day for 4 months, a best friend. He has said he's not attracted to her, however, there have been a few odd things that he's brought up to me the past few months. He asked me once if women liked confident men and that if the best thing to do was just to ask out a girl and go on a limb. He told me she had a date last weekend. He told me he didnt tell me because he thought I would be jealous.

I would have rather have been jealous for the day or two, then got over it, instead of having him lie.

Should I break off my friendship with him? I did consider him one of my best friends, but lying to me for months on end because Im jealous, just doesnt seem right. [/quote]

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