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[quote=Anonymous]OP, is the separation about financial, emotional, or sexual issues? My wife and I were considering separation last year, until she did some introspection and I did some investigation of health issues and made a few conscious choices. But at no point did we mistrust each other about money. So that's why I'm saying -- if it's because you don't trust him with money, then keep accounts separate. If he was banging the secretary but not spending excessive amounts of money on her (aside from buying her coffee, a small lunch, that sort of thing, but not $300 shoes/sweaters) then consider re-uniting financially. But your idea is reasonable. I wouldn't go to the mat to defend it though, if your husband is trustworthy about money. I wouldn't reunite financially if you're not 100% sure about reuniting emotionally.[/quote]
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