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Reply to "What does real love feel like? Love after heartbreak."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When I told my current boyfriend what happened to me in my previous marriage he said "if you are open to sharing what your lingering fears and triggers are, I promise to always keep them forefront in my mind, anticipate them to the best of my ability, and provide you all the reassurance, understanding, and grace you need". Saying he has lived up to that is an understatement. Love is safety, reliability, care, and follow through. [/quote] That’s wonderful, and I’m very happy you found someone like him. Unfortunately, my biggest concern is that someone would weaponize my fears and use them against me. It may or may not be entirely rational, but that’s what I worry about. [/quote] You’re not irrational because there ARE bad people in the world like that who behave that way in relationships. But they often make themselves known in a relationship by pushing boundaries and now that you are wiser you can see through that.[/quote]
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