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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My HRT includes testosterone, and I hate being a downer, but while T *massively* increased my sex drive, I still did not want sex with my boyfriend at the time. So much of sex is mental, and I didn’t desire him specifically for many reasons (lack of an emotional connection, he wasn’t very good in bed and wasn’t interested in exploring the things I wanted to try, etc). So T may or may not help with your desire for you husband. I’d also do some reflecting on if you’re getting the kind of sex you even want - I didn’t realize until I was nearly 40 that most of the sex I had with men wasn’t sex I enjoyed, it was for them. Now, T plus a guy you have great sexual chemistry with is INSANE. highly recommend. [/quote] I don’t know about T (the evidence is not clear) but I totally agree with you about the experience of sex being more for the man in my past. It kind of takes a deliberate effort to make it about pleasing yourself. [/quote]
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