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Reply to "When other kids are unkind to your kid, how do you keep emotional distance from it?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's hard not to hold it against them, even though I know kids are young and still figuring stuff out. I try to stay more objective but some part of me hold grudges against these kids. How do others handle it?[/quote] I tell my kid that everyone needs time to grow and change. That they also make mistakes. If someone is not being nice to find someone else to hang out with. ….. then I hold the grudge against that kid in my mind long after my kid forgets. If I see meaningful change then I change my mind. In some cases I see bully parents and draw the conclusion there is no hope for that child, then encourage my kid never to hang out with them.[/quote]
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