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[quote=Anonymous]I would figure out what's a reasonable amount that you can give to each child and tell her that. I wouldn't have an issue with a lump sum, but the timing needs to work for you, not $10 k ASAP. It's reasonable to say this was not an expense we have bugldgeted for and need to figure out how much and when we can pay. I wouldn't try to change the timing of the elopement/ wedding. If you would like to be invited to the courthouse, I think it's OK to say that one time (and that the grooms parents might like to attend) but tell her you'll be fine either way.[/quote]
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