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[quote=Anonymous]I think you're being unreasonable. -She should cover her expenses once married. -why would you pay wedding expenses but not give money as a lump sum? Is there a difference? Money is fungible, so you're splitting hairs. You need to decide how much money you want to give all of your children for their weddings. What you give to #1 will need to be the same as what you give to the other two (indexed for inflation since one of your kids is so much younger). And then give her that amount in a lump sum. When I was engaged, my parents sat us down, handed us a check and then I planned my wedding. That's what happened with friends as well and what we'll do with our own children. [/quote]
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