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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To be brutally honest, OP, I would tell him to be very discreet at first until he's more attuned to his surroundings. I grew up in Scotland. I know things have changed for the better, but there's still such a thing as gay bashing, literally, especially in bar situations. There is such a thing as gay hunting, where people of certain orientations are lured into dangerous situations. He needs to be cautious about any encounter and already know the person and feel safe with them. [/quote] Gay adult. I would NOT tell my gay kid this. They have enough to be scared of. The last thing you want to do is to project your fear and shame onto them. Your son may perceive (incorrectly), that you're ashamed of him. [/quote] Really? I don't think any kid of mine would ever believe I was ashamed of them. They would understand that such advice comes from genuine fear for their safety. [/quote]
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