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[quote=Anonymous]I’m so sorry that your husband is terrible. I also discovered that mine is a sexist jerk after having a baby. Unless your husband has an actual memory issue like a TBI, what he really has is typical acquired male laziness and entitlement. He manages to remember things at work. If he behaved at work how he behaves toward you he’d be fired. Do not put up with this. You are BOTH working a demanding job. His is NOT harder or more important. You deserve rest just as much. He needs to step up and parent immediately. Tell him he’s not pulling his weight and is making You resent him. Ask him how your baby will feel someday when they find out their dad treated their mother badly and didn’t help at all. If it’s a daughter, ask if how he’s behaving now is how he’d want his daughter to be treated by her husband someday. I’m really sorry, OP. Patriarchal society harms us all.[/quote]
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