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[quote=Anonymous]Is he self-conscious?  I don’t think so.  He seems to lack awareness and be immature.

Is it hormonal? Medically, it’s probably having an impact.

How do I get him to snap out of it?  If you can answer this, you could sell the solution and be a billionaire overnight.

He is emotionally crippled and there is very little that you can do about it.  If you have children, you can help them so they do not have the same problem as adults.  Too often, society calls it emotionally abusive or verbally abusive if you say anything critical to anyone about anything.  This does not help kids develop the coping and maturity skills needed as an adult.  It seems that your husband lacks those skills and you do not.

Provide both positive feedback and also critical feedback to your children and help them improve so they do not lack the same skills as an adult.  Odds are the schools and other social institutions that your family attends will not do that (they will instead call this bullying).  As for your husband, don’t be afraid to try everything and see what works.

Good Luck
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