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[quote=Anonymous]OP: I am sorry that your friend said that. We struggled with infertility for nine years (twins). We were also old by the time it worked. Yes, my friends would make remarks like that and terribly hurt my feelings. I do not know why friends say things like that, but it certainly is not helpful nor friendship building. Why, why do friends say things like that? I have to say, of my wide circle of friends and acquaintances, only 3 refrained from that kind of insensitive talk. One was infertility also -- a true blue friend. The other had those kind of invincible manners --would never say that. Actually she did, then apologized saying that she hadn't thought what that would sound like to me. The 3rd also had lost a baby. People just do not think! For some on the borderline, it was the end. For others, later they understood how insensitive they had been. Again, I am sorry. After some time, I only talked to other infertility patients about these issues.[/quote]
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