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Reply to "Embarrassed about thoughts I had about my husbands friend and my husband."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Baby. It would be abnormal NOT to have such fantasies. Everyone has them. You're late to the party. [/quote] The issue is that she is essentially reliving the fantasy and seeking validation for it by posting about it to internet strangers rather than discussing it with her husband or her own therapist in private. Women who seek validation for these kinds of fantasies also tend to try to make them a reality. There is no doubt she was heavily flirting with the friend perhaps under her husband's nose and outside his awareness.. If she told her husband he would immediately shut it down and perhaps end the friendship or at least ask her to go to therapy Jer concealing it from her husband is not white cheating but it is emotional deception. He has a right to know that the son called fantasy involves a real person in her social circle that she can access to and escalate whenever she decides to. [/quote]
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