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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What if her husband was still alive and the two of them took the trip to LV to see a concert, leaving the kids with the grandparents for a few days? Would that have been wrong?

Your DH seems to think she should spend the rest of her life sitting at home in a black taffeta dress. That's not the way life works.[/quote]

It wasn't just a trip with a friend, it was a trip to Vegas with a bestie.  The inference is that she was going to be getting drunk, spending lots of money, possibly gambling a lot, but definitely trying to find hook ups for casual sex.  That's why OP was trying to sell a trip to Vegas as an innocuous form of recreation to her husband, and here.  He wasn't buying it.  Op has an ulterior motive of going on a similar girls gone wild trip without her husband and was trying to soften him up for it.  If he agrees it's ok for the widow to do it, then he can't object to his own wife doing it.  That's why to OP he is the AH.  He shut  the idea down and now she won't be able to do something similar.  [/quote]

Given the circumstances, I would absolutely support her in going to Vegas to do all those things if she wants. Being verbally supportive doesn’t imply that the DH would think OP is asking for the same permission. He’s the AH. [/quote]

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