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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]That's interesting.  Try inverting things.  What if you changed what you wanted, to instead, trying to find someone that you could live whole heartedly, and who also had the emotional maturity to accept your love and stop looking for other options?

The difference is you are much more in control of who you choose to love, than who chooses to live you, which is really not in your control at all.

You should screen first by trying to select someone that you love or are capable of loving   Its up to them if they love you back or not.  Who you choose to love should be someone who at least is capable of loving you back.

Again things will probably be a lot more fluid and mutual and non sequential.  But viewing yourself as the active agent of your own destiny is much more empowering than the alternative. And it also forces you to make difficult choices, but necessary ones, for your long term happiness  [/quote]

Well I was seeing 2 men since divorce and I really had feelings for both of them but I guess it wasn’t mutual (or just not enough for them to want a relationship)… so clearly I would have been able to love them if they had shown that kind of interest in me.[/quote]

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