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Reply to "Insane to keep NYC apt and rent in the burbs for reasons school?"
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[quote=Anonymous]I think the key thing you and your husband need to align on is - where do you live when? If the kids are going to school in Rye, then that will be your primary home M-F. And, especially as their social/extracurriculars settle in, you’ll probably be there a fair amount of weekends, too. So you’re in the city a couple weekends a month? And then who is using it during the week and how often? Is DH expecting to stay there M-Thurs nights every week? I wouldn’t be okay with that. Or is it a set night or two a week for each of you? Or just when you’re stuck at work late? Are you on the same page about what constitutes “late”? This could easily turn into you essentially living apart during the week, which I would not be okay with. So you need to dive into the details with him before you commit to this plan. [/quote]
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