Reply to Guy keeps wanting to come over immediately

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Guy keeps wanting to come over immediately"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous]I met a guy while OLD in 2021, and ended up dating someone else for a number of years. I recently started dating again and reached out to him. He is also single now. However, he has kept wanting me to come over on short notice at night (offering to get me an uber) when I needed to be asleep fairly early. This has happened on weekends and weeknights. The last two nights he has wanted late night sex, but told him I needed to go to sleep by 10:30 to be up for a 5 am workday start. He said one night late wouldn't harm my career, and it was a yellow flag that I'm not being flexible. He texted me again today a bit earlier in the afternoon (after I guess he realized I was serious about the late night thing) and wants to come over to hook up. He told me he will ask me out on proper dates after we have sex given that we've known each other so long (we've never had sex before because I started dating someone else the last time I was single). I keep telling him that I'm looking for a long-term, serious partnership and yesterday he texted that if we end up not being compatible sexually, we can go back to being friends - but basically he wants sex first and says he will ask me out on proper dates later. Honestly, it wouldn't be that hard to plan a museum or dinner date with me. What should I do? It's kind of wild to me but I haven't dated much in the last 4-5 years, so maybe his proposal is totally fine? [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics