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[quote=Anonymous]What does it mean to be “legally” separated in VA?

I left my husband and family home in VA and moved to a different state. VA law says that if you have no minor children and agree how to divide assets, you can file for divorce in 6 months after living separately, and then divorce can be finalized within a couple of months.

I don’t know when I want to actually file for divorce - maybe when I decide to marry someone else. I have a boyfriend, and he is okay with my current situation and understands that I’m in transition. And I also had to go to the family home for two weeks recently and even stay there with my husband.

Your girlfriend is also in transition, it’s not a permanent situation. You can discuss it with her and ask what her plans are - regarding her dogs and divorce. Your intentions and feelings matter to her too, so consider communicating them clearly. If my boyfriend says that he wants us to live together and potentially get married but he’d like me to divorce before moving in together, then I’ll file for divorce. Right now there’s no incentive for me to change anything. 
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