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[quote=Anonymous]For most of my life I’ve been a terrible people-pleaser, and it works! People are pleased! But it comes at the expense of my never being obtrusive, difficult, insistent, etc. I am always listening, accommodating, inviting, planning, reaching out, checking in, making sure everyone else is okay. And I’m really tired of it. What happens if I just…stop? Has anyone else evolved in this way? I’ve just turned 40 and feel like that has something to do with this change of heart. [/quote]
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