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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I mean, isn't there some court order saying how far you can move away from him? How would visitation with the child work?[/quote]

Yes, there is, but I don’t think he would object to changing it so I have full custody.[/quote]

You think your kid won't want to visit their father who makes them feel powerful enough to be abusive to their mother? [/quote]

There is so much wrong with it ! Abusive parenting don’t make their kids feel “powerful”. They diminish their self esteem . My ex was screaming at son, kicking him out in a shirt in winter. Kids loose a benchmark of heathy communication and relationships. They think this type of behavior towards weaker person (a woman, a dog , a child) is the right way to reassert themselves

OP - I was able to break the cycle moving away. [b]You and your  child need to be in therapy to rebuild a healthy relationship [/quote][/b]

IME just working on the relationship is much better than forced therapy. No teen wants to be in therapy with their mom. It is a time and money suck. Ops time would be better spent doing a few sessions alone with a very good family therapist with significant experience with teens, and then taking some strategies to use with dd. [/quote]

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