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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For years I have been working with DD on how to be kinder or phrasing thinks nicer to others. She has a very curt “that’s stupid or that’s dumb, why can’t you just ___,”  frank personality that can easily offend others. She does this either way friends and family. It’s just a facet of her personality.

I’ve lost the word that I am thinking of but does this continue always as adults? [/quote]

She has not had consequences for her behavior and lack of social etiquettes till now - losing friends, being disliked or gossiped about, being shut off from groups, losing opportunities, losing face, being humiliated back or losing privileges at home.

If you don't intervene now, this will only get worse.  And in the future, normal, pleasant and functional people will avoid her.  The people who will be attracted to her will be degenerates.

Get her in therapy.  She sounds insufferable and entitled.  Her personality and persona is toxic. Life will come back and slap her hard otherwise.  This behavior does not change without intervention and does not auto-correct itself in adulthood.

Do her a kindness - get her help. Get yourself helo so that you can be a parent that this child needs. [/quote]

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