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[quote=Anonymous]I dispute the premise. I don’t think “many” people are doing this. It’s abnormal and atypical. I think some have legitimate grievances they should work through with a good therapist. I also think social media plays a role in manipulating others into becoming performative with imagined slights and fabulism/revisionist history about things that happened. But it’s not like this sort of thing is commonplace. It’s fringe. Your role? I guess it’s just to listen. But don’t feel like you need to validate everything. A lot of people have these Big Feelings that actually are not valid. Whether you want to be the one to tell them that is up to you. But if they are in the performative group, you don’t have to indulge it or feed their need for attention.[/quote]
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