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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You lack confidence. I would say “oh, I have a great one!” And then share my answer. You wait to be called on. [/quote] Op here. This is when I get crickets and it ruins my confidence that what I have said isn’t interesting to the group. So I then think that I close up and become more reserved. I notice that there’s typically a lot of chatter for others and awkwardly not as much for me and I can’t tell how to take it. I don’t went to bore people but also don’t want to be counted out if that makes sense. In work settings, I’m also never one of the people who gets the added agreement or acknowledgement in the meetings - the “as Christy said” or “to add to what Christy said”. I’m not sure how to make my statements resonate more or stand out more to others. More relatable maybe to get that agreement? The older I get the more I notice I am more of the “invisible” person. [/quote]
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