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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are regretting the kid you imagine you would have gotten. What if that kid is not what you imagined? Like what if they never got to the point in life where they could live independently or they were violent and the rest of your family lived in fear of them. Regardless, you still have time if that's what you really want because there is no sense in regretting the choices you made - and not having another baby is a choice. [/quote] That’s true. You can’t know the path not taken. A fourth kid could disrupt the equilibrium you have now, and add struggles you never imagined. I can’t imagine having three healthy kids who are obviously thriving (or you wouldn’t be contemplating a 4th), and not feeling like your family is complete. I don’t mean to invalidate your feelings, but you’ve got it good!! Count your blessings![/quote]
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