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[quote=Anonymous]1. As cliche as it sounds, just being happy is what I want. To enjoy my family and friends, travel, and retire early. 2. Wife and I have a great relationship. She has a lighter work schedule than me so sometimes she does my laundry or does more around the house that I would normally do so when we have downtime we can spend it together vs me doing the things I need to. So that's nice. 3. Not really sure how to answer this. I guess our close relationship makes me feel valued? If I ask DW or DS to do something and they do it (DW had a habit of leaving cups or dishes everywhere and it drove me nuts. She's stopped) then I guess I feel respected. 4. I like that DW and I are like equals. I'm the primary contact for school/activities and I like that DW trusts me to manage it all. I like that she initiates sex as much as I do. I like that DW has a life outside of just me and DS, as I am a bit of an introvert so I'm glad she has people to do things with outside of me. 5. We've been together 15+ years but when I was dating, someone who held their own. Someone who had a good job. Someone who was adventurous. Someone who would fit in seamlessly with my group of friends or at a work function. I'm a boob guy and prefer a more average size body than thin. 6. I think there is a group that undervalues men and I think they get a lot of attention, especially when they post/say inflammatory things for the purpose of getting that attention. As a whole, I don't think it exists though. There is definitely more attention on the toxic masculinity and DW and I have had the discussion many times about how guys have changed from when we were growing up. But we both agree it's largely in a good way (at least where we live) 7. Recently got a large raise and bought my dream car. DS just made a soccer team for next year that he's thrilled about and I'm going to help coach. I just booked a trip for me and DW for August that I haven't told her about. [/quote]
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