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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your husband and me are likely the same type of person. I saw no reason to bring up my dad after his death. I didn't need to talk it through, I didn't need to work through my grief...it just was it was. I concentrated on all the good in my life and privately thought about my dad at certain times. It sounds like you are the one who needs support grieving. Everyone grieves differently, don't expect your husband to be the same as you. Share your grief and feelings with your best friend and work through them[/quote] This. Sometimes I feel like I grieve my FIL more than my husband does - but I know that’s not true! DH simply doesn’t dwell on things the way I do. I also reminisce with my kids - he was a good grandfather and I don’t want them to forget. When this happens at the dinner table and DH goes quiet - I know he misses him dearly.[/quote]
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