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[quote=Anonymous]NP. Agree with the advice to stay as low-contact as possible, especially if you think your sibling will disrupt the decision-making. Your dad's needs are what matter most. I'm not sure what sort of mental issues your sibling has, or why you feel their involvement would make things worse. But if they're like my sister, they might try to take control by saying "no" to everything you or various professionals suggest. It got to the point where I'd suggest the opposite, just so sis would think she won yet we'd still end up with a reasonable result. Although I did push back hard when she tried to fire the two best CNAs.... Point being, you don't want to open the door to disruption--if you think her participation is going to be based more on her own needs, and on her power plays, than on what your dad really needs. [/quote]
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