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[quote=Anonymous]TL/DR: How can I tell personality disordered sibling “no” without enraging them?

Background:

I manage the affairs for my dad and sibling does very little.

However, sibling likes to do any work that can be seen by others. If the work is behind the scenes and not visible, they are less interested.

I am low contact with sibling, partly because they did not alert me that their stepdaughter’s husband is a dangerous criminal before I visited with them.

Sibling physically attacked me in the past    at least three times.

On a trip, long ago, they broke my suitcase in anger.

I used to think this was all my fault but I matured and got therapy.

Now sibling wants to be added back to phone calls with financial advisor to discuss parent’s affairs.

I want nothing to do with sibling, and they have monopolized the convo with the advisor with their nonstop talking. And they cause expensive problems and do not take accountability because they are never wrong.

They are mentally ill, but everyone else is the problem, of course.

How can I tell them “no” without enraging them?[/quote]

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