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[quote=Anonymous]First of all, your ex should not take this seriously unless your kid can cite specific examples of mistreatment.

Secondly, the courts won't do anything unless the kid and ex can cite specific examples of mistreatment. If your son is working toward wanting to live with your ex, they might consider his feelings and let him unless there is other evidence that your ex is an unfit parent. You will just have to deal with that, I guess.

Third, I know kids can be ridiculous, but maybe you should examine your behavior and ask yourself if there is ANY truth in what the kid is saying. NOT that I am saying you are mean to him...but why does he think that? Because you took away his iPad or something as punishment? If so, you need to have another talk with him about actions/consequences, and why it's your job to discipline him. Maybe you need to consider another type of discipline with him, because the one you are using doesn't work. Is there something going on in his life that makes him resentful of or angry with you? Is there a behavioral problem that makes him lie or exaggerate the truth? Talk to him, find some answers.

At the very least, plan an outing with him. Do something you know he will enjoy. Not as a reward for bad behavior but because you love him and want to connect with him. Show him that you do.

Good luck OP.  [/quote]

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