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[quote=Anonymous]I have had this issue my entire career. Here is what I do: 1. Conservative, more masculine or androgynous clothes. This may not age me that much but it does make me look less feminine which has the same impact in terms of making people take me more seriously. 2. Minimal makeup, especially eye makeup. I rarely wear lipstick. 3. Dark colors and classic pieces. I wear a lot of black and navy, button down shirts, carry a simple black bag, my jewelry is minimalist and usually just simple gold pieces, few stones. I also think it's partly in how you carry yourself. At work I've always been more serious, not very smile-y, very calm and not reactive. When people perceive you as young and feminine, their subconscious sexism assumes you are silly, frivolous, and emotional. By adopting a serious and very professional demeanor, you can dispel that assumption. None of this makes people like you or find you attractive. But it does make them respect you. Unfortunately, for women, you sometimes have to choose one or the other. At least, I did.[/quote]
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