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Reply to "Grief of a Failed Marriage and Jealousy "
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[quote=Anonymous]I think it takes time to come to terms with your own life, grief, and decisions. That healing will happen. I will also say that this is a very hard time because many of your peers will be going through those milestones and its natural to compare, even if not healthy. It may happen for you, too, but if it doesn't, you are not consigning yourself to an empty life. My friends who partnered in their later 40s/50s are the happiest women I know. One married someone who had kids, the other 2 married men who didnt have/want kids, but they all have very rich, full lives, and a lot of freedom (and money). Their relationships are solid, but they also have rich friend networks, and full lives because they spent their late 30s and 40s doing those kinds of things. They also all struggled in their late 30s as others seemed to be doing things by the book, but that moment in life passes. So work through the grief, but also know that your future is not yet written and it is full of possibility. [/quote]
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