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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] Red Flag 🚩 He doesn't want to marry you. [/quote] I tend to lean in this direction. Just my own experience, but I had a BF stall with these same concerns. He dragged it out for years before finally admitting he didn’t want to get married at all. It was very messy. Plus, 1+ years seems pretty late to start having the marriage conversation. I bring it up by 6 months (I’m 40, so I’m not wasting a year of my life on someone who isn’t sure). The last time I did this at 6 months, despite him being a great BF and loving me, he hemmed and hawed and started talking about how it would be years before we’d be ready for marriage and potentially a child together. Years? Playa, I’m 40, I’m not waiting years. I’d start having those difficult conversations sooner rather than later. Don’t be like me and waste 5 years of your life waiting for a guy to be ready, just for him to dump you.[/quote]
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