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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] Red Flag 🚩 He doesn't want to marry you. [/quote] Actually, we don’t have enough information to know if that’s a red flag or a green flag. Is he throwing up obstacles, or asking you to participate in serious conversations about how you would address these things? If the latter, major green flag and you should take him up on it. What would happen if you had a special-needs child? What would happen if one of your parents had strong opinions, or a health crisis, or needed to move in with you? What are your respective expectations about life after kids? Do you expect him to do half the child brewing? Does he expect you to find a babysitter and get dressed up every Friday night to keep him happy? He is absolutely right that these are the things that test marriages. It’s just not clear from your post whether he considers them dealbreaker or he wants to explore further.[/quote]
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