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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My spouse has anger issues and always has. Things are now at a breaking point as it's now affecting the whole family unit. I'm not at the point of issuing an ultimatum, but need them to commit to individual therapy.

If you had to have a come to Jesus on something like this, how did you do it? At home? on a walk? in a public place?

What finally got through to them? We go through these cycles of things being pretty good and then one thing will trigger and explosive and frankly scary reaction. Both children are expressing concerns for their own and my safety. [/quote]

You married and procreated with a person with anger issues. I'm not sure why you're surprised now, but your number one goal is to keep your children safe. The talk isn't going to go well, you should have a contingency plan in place. Can your kids stay at a friend's or relative's over the weekend? Can you have the conversation somewhere quiet but public that you arrive at in separate cars?

What SHOULD have gotten through to them by now is the fact that they're scaring their children, but they don't seem to care. You need to understand that this person is likely never going to change. This is who you married and this is likely who you'll end up divorcing. Why on earth would you have children with someone who has anger issues?!?[/quote]

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