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[quote=Anonymous]You don’t, because someone like that is already using their anger as a tool to manipulate you. If you thought you could safely issue an ultimatum or change things, you would have already. I was in deep when I did decide to risk an ultimatum, which he never even acknowledged. Then I got an email out of the blue a few weeks later saying I was going to be served divorce papers. Don’t worry about him anymore. Work on you and your kids. Get attorney consults and get an emergency fund and a legal retainer fund going. In the meantime, act like everything is ok so you buy yourself time to make a safety plan and a financial plan. I didn’t have any warning but it was still a priority for me to have places my kids could run to after the filing in case things escalated, updated emergency contacts expecting he will flake on pickup at school and activities, etc. Stay safe. I know how it feels and how isolated and confused you might feel.[/quote]
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