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Reply to "My ADHD husband lets me down in every single possible logistical situation. Anyone else in a similar boat?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In the same boat. I'm just trying to make enough money that I can outsource everything and have the option for a divorce. I also try to put him in situations where he has no choice but to deal. It's the only way to force him to engage. For example, if I sit down with him and explain that I need him to handle the kids on a weekday morning because I need to work, he will yes me to death and then simply not do it and the consequences fall on me. BUT, if I leave the house before the kids wake up, then he has NO CHOICE but to get up with them and get them off to school. This strategy can't ever result in actual equity, BUT it can ensure that the structure of the situation compels him to act, rather than me trying to use words to compel him to act which has never worked ever.[/quote] My spouse definitely does not have ADHD and this is the only way I can get him to engage in the mornings, too. If I'm physically present, everything defaults to me. [/quote]
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